The seats are tight for a two-hour flight, let alone a six-and-a-half-hour one. I am typing sideways because my husband’s broad chest leaves no room to face the cockpit. We have no choice. The rows press in, far too close for comfort. They feel designed for smaller frames, likely East Asian travelers, not for someone like me. Asking for a seat extender made me cry, but it also made something clear. If I want to travel through Asia more comfortably, I need to lose weight. This A330 Airbus holds 377 passengers, and today it feels like every inch of space matters.