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Today is my birthday—happy birthday to me, happy birthday to me. I’m spending it with the person I love most—my husband, Steven. We’re doing what makes us happy—slow meals, good wine, and a weekend in a pretty hotel suite. This afternoon, we had lunch at Lavender Crest Winery, where we shared a bottle of Corona White and split a French Dip and a Reuben on the back patio near the vineyards. Before dinner, we’ll enjoy cocktails and a movie (Black Bag) at The Last Picture House. Tonight, we’ll toast with Thai teas at Pho Fushion and Bar. I’m lucky to spend the day doing what I love most—celebrating simple, meaningful birthday traditions that reflect who we are and what matters most.
Table of Contents
- Birthday Traditions Matter
- South Korean Tradition
- Mexican Birthday Customs
- German Celebration Style
- Ghanaian Family Celebrations
- Vietnamese Birthday View
- Indian Birthday Rituals
- Jamaican Birthday Fun
- Joyful Global Celebrations
Birthday Traditions Matter
We’re checking into the historic Blackhawk Hotel in downtown Davenport this weekend. At some point, we’ll circle back to a few favorites restaurants and cafes—Ms. Phay’s, Thailand Town, and probably a bakery or two.
Birthdays bring people together. Whether you’re blowing out candles, breaking eggs on heads, or eating seaweed soup. Birthdays reflect something deeper about where we come from and what we value.
The little rituals stay with us long after the candles are blown out. I thought it would be fun to talk about how everybody celebrates birthdays worldwide.
South Korean Tradition
In Korea, seaweed soup (miyeokguk) isn’t just comfort food. It’s a traditional birthday breakfast. Moms eat it after childbirth, and children eat it to honor them. Instead of parties, many people celebrate with quiet family meals. That simple bowl of soup reminds me how food often speaks louder than words.
Mexican Birthday Customs
You’ve probably seen the piñata, but there’s also the song Las Mañanitas. It’s a traditional serenade that’s often sung before sunrise, sometimes with a mariachi band. A bite of birthday cake often comes with your face pushed into it—mordida. Sometimes the messiest moments become the most cherished memories.
German Celebration Style
Germans keep it practical. Kids might wear paper crowns, but adults plan their own parties. Guests bring cards and flowers, but never wish someone happy birthday early. It’s considered bad luck.
I admire the simplicity—sometimes, keeping things low-key is the best gift.
Ghanaian Family Celebrations
Fried plantains, spicy stews, and jollof rice mark many birthday tables. Some families offer prayers or blessings in the morning. The focus is on gratitude and sharing, not just gifts. That sense of community reminds me how birthdays can be about giving, not just getting.
Vietnamese Birthday View
Most people in Vietnam don’t celebrate their birthdays individually. Instead, everyone gets a year older on Tết, the Lunar New Year. Families visit elders, offer food at altars, and wear new clothes to start the year fresh. The idea of aging together feels grounding, like a collective fresh start.
Indian Birthday Rituals
In many Indian homes, birthdays begin with a visit to a temple. Children might get their first haircut or have their ears pierced. Sweet treats like gulab jamun or rasgulla often replace traditional cake.
It’s a blend of spiritual reflection and sweet indulgence that feels beautifully balanced.
Jamaican Birthday Fun
In some parts of Jamaica, people throw flour on the birthday person. It starts as a sneak attack and often turns into a full-on flour fight. It may sound wild, but laughter like that sticks with you for years.
Joyful Global Celebrations
Birthdays don’t need much. Just a reason to pause. It’s a moment to feel grateful for where you are and who you’re with. I’ve celebrated in big cities and small towns, with crowds and alone, but the feeling I chase is always the same—ease, connection, and a little joy in the ordinary.
This year, we stayed close to home and spent the weekend at the Blackhawk Hotel in downtown Davenport. I’ve always loved this historic hotel for its old-school elegance—Art Deco touches, high ceilings, velvet chairs, and service that doesn’t miss a beat. Everything about it feels intentional, right down to the creaky elevators and mirrored hallways.
But this weekend, what I’ll remember most wasn’t the decor. It was the quiet moment we opened the door to our room and found a slice of peanut butter cake and two glasses of champagne waiting. Sweet, simple, and unexpected. The kind of gesture that says, we see you—this matters. Happy Birthday!
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Are you interested in other cultures? Check out this post about the popular, Emmy Award-winning series White Lotus, where I dissect the most culturally insensitive character during season 3.
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