After years of staying for family, I’ve realized leaving America—at least part-time—offers the space to feel present, free, and fulfilled. Living abroad isn’t about escape. It’s about choosing a slower rhythm, deeper connection, and a version of life that feels more honest than what I’ve settled for here.
MILITARY SPOUSE BLOG
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Real Ways I Make Money as a Travel Blogger Today
I didn’t start Duffelbagspouse to make money. I just wanted to tell real stories about travel, family, and constant moves. Over time, I found ways to earn from what I love. This post breaks down what works, what doesn’t, and how storytelling can become part of something sustainable and real.
LIFESTYLE
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Happy Birthday Traditions from Around the World
I turned another year older doing what I love—traveling slow, eating well, and soaking up small joys with Steven. This birthday, we shared wine at a local vineyard, watched a movie downtown, and ended the day with Thai tea. It reminded me how birthday traditions can reflect who we are.
PLACES
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How to Hike to Wat Pha Lat in Chiang Mai and What You’ll See Along the Way
One warm February morning in Chiang Mai, I set out alone to hike the Monk’s Trail. With each step, the noise faded. In its place—silence, birdsong, and the peaceful hush of Wat Pha Lat. That quiet temple in the forest reminded me what it feels like to arrive, not chase.
LIFESTYLE
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The Truth About Korean Temple Stays: Stillness Hurts When You Sit Crosslegged
A Korean temple stay tests more than patience—it challenges the body. Sleeping on a traditional hanok floor, waking at 3 a.m. and meditating for hours pushed me past discomfort. With no phone, no distractions, and no escape from stillness, I faced every ache, every numb limb, and kept going.
PLACES
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What Would Privatized National Parks Look Like in America?
America’s national parks are under threat from budget cuts, privatization, and weakened environmental protections. Fewer staff means slower emergency response and neglected facilities. Privatization could limit public access and destroy natural habitats. These spaces offer peace, inspiration, and connection to nature. Learn how to protect them before they’re lost forever.
PLACES
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Is the Selena Museum Worth Visiting? Here’s What You’ll Experience
Watching Selena reminded me of our visit to the Selena Museum in Corpus Christi. In today’s divided climate, honoring her legacy feels even more important. Her music, passion, and cultural pride still resonate. That side trip gave me a moving look into a culture I deeply respect but don’t share.
PLACES
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Rock Island’s Sunset Park: A Riverside Spot Locals Love
Sunset Park in Rock Island is more than a park—it’s a place to pause. The river flows steadily, sunsets paint the sky, and time slows down. Whether you come for the view, the company, or a quiet moment alone, this is where you’ll find peace. You might even see me there.