Over the past eight years, my journey of getting to know a different culture and immersing myself in Korean traditions has proven to be an eye-opening and rewarding experience. During my time in South Korea, I’ve had the good fortune of making some wonderful Korean friends. However, amidst these connections, I’ve observed the existence of certain cultural barriers that sometimes make it challenging to forge deeper connections. It’s quite surprising that despite having a few close friendships, my exposure to Korean weddings has been limited to just one, visits to Korean homes have been infrequent, and meeting a Korean husband has been a rarity.
As a black female traveler, navigating the world can be daunting. From dealing with race and gender biases to expecting, but not always receiving respectful behavior. There are many factors to consider when traveling as a black woman. In this blog post, I will share some of my personal experiences and insights and offer tips and advice on how to make the most out of your travels as a black woman.
Living in South Korea as a black woman can be a challenging experience due to unique obstacles such as beauty standards that favor light skin, difficulties finding suitable clothing and hair products, and navigating stereotypes and discrimination. Despite these challenges, I remain committed to breaking down these prejudices by sharing my experiences and connecting with other black women.
I love Korean skincare products. But if I’m honest, before I moved to South Korea, if I washed my makeup off before bed, I was doing good. I wore lotion, but I didn’t have a skincare routine. Or I needed one. You wouldn’t know that now because I’m a skincare junkie. And while I don’t use all these products daily, here are some of my favorite Korean skincare (K-beauty) products for anti-aging, hyperpigmentation, and skin brightening.
Travel has always been one of the best military spouse benefits. Fortunately, the military creates opportunities for Military Spouses to Travel for Solo Fun. It’s the week of San Fermin in Pamplona, a.k .a . the Running of the Bulls, and it’s one of my fondest travel memories.
Being A Black Military Spouse in America I’ve traveled to approximately 60 countries in my life as a black military spouse and mother. Many of them alone. But most of them with two black boys in tow. People often ask …
What is it about dining alone that makes us scared? Some people won’t travel solo out of this fear alone. Well, not me. I actually like eating alone. But I know a lot of people that can’t do it. Is …
Most people would never consider me an introvert. And I’m not. But I don’t think I am an extrovert either. If I had to classify myself, I’m a thoughtful extrovert. Or an ambivert traveler– a combination of both. I’m just …
I am not a black blogger. I am a blogger who happens to be black. And I follow several travel bloggers for their unique perspectives on travel. I never cared what color they were. Unfortunately, too few of them are …
It was a pretty, but its not exactly what I expected. I thought I booked a room with a balcony. He scurried downstairs and brought up my reservation. In the center, it was very clear. I had booked the Lavender Room. He could see I was disappointed and offered to show me another room the following day.
She dimmed the lights and the room took on the appearance of a night club. It was 9am and the neon lights flooded down from the ceiling in geometric shapes that danced on the wooden floor. Meghan Trainor’s All About That Bass filtered down from the speakers on the forever cemented that song as the first song I danced to in a “Korean nightclub”.
I once referred to myself as an expat. But during a recent dinner party at my home, we welcomed “real” American Expats to a long promised and much appreciated home cooked meal.
Nope, not even close. Although… even though I am NOT rich, I may be the only black person they meet and I want to leave a positive impression. I often feel the need to over tip or otherwise over-compensate for my skin color. Its totally unnecessary because I’m not a hotel pig, I find myself doing things like straightening up the room so the maids don’t see any mess.
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7 Must-See Attractions for First-Time Visitors Salt Lake City, nestled in a stunning mountain-ringed valley in Utah, offers a captivating blend of historic landmarks, natural beauty, and vibrant cultural scenes. Must-see Salt Lake City attractions include the iconic Temple Square, the expansive Great Salt Lake, and many more, each telling a part of the story that makes this dynamic city uniquely captivating....
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7 Must-See Attractions for First-Time Visitors Salt Lake City, nestled in a stunning mountain-ringed valley in Utah, offers a captivating blend of historic landmarks, natural beauty, and vibrant cultural scenes. Must-see Salt Lake City attractions include the iconic Temple Square, the expansive Great Salt Lake, and many more, each telling a part of the story that makes this dynamic city uniquely captivating....
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During my recent trip to Gwangju, I was really excited to explore the local cafe scene. Korea is famous for its unique cafes with cool themes and eye-catching designs. I had a great time checking them out and want to tell you about three of my favorites in this blog post: Plan B Cafe, Lounge OIC and Cafe, and Lieful Cafe in Gwangju.
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During my recent trip to Gwangju, I was really excited to explore the local cafe scene. Korea is famous for its unique cafes with cool themes and eye-catching designs. I had a great time checking them out and want to tell you about three of my favorites in this blog post: Plan B Cafe, Lounge OIC and Cafe, and Lieful Cafe in Gwangju.
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Salt Lake City, Utah, a city surrounded by majestic natural beauty, recently surprised me with its vibrant spirit and stunning landscapes. My visit was part of a special event—the Women in Travel Summit, and the trip to the Salt Flats was sponsored by the Visit Utah Tourism Board. This event brought together a dynamic group of women bloggers, offering us a chance to connect and share experiences. After leaving our hotel at 4:30 AM for the 90-minute journey, our group was thrilled to explore one of Utah`s many treasures, the mesmerizing Salt Flats....
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Salt Lake City, Utah, a city surrounded by majestic natural beauty, recently surprised me with its vibrant spirit and stunning landscapes. My visit was part of a special event—the Women in Travel Summit, and the trip to the Salt Flats was sponsored by the Visit Utah Tourism Board. This event brought together a dynamic group of women bloggers, offering us a chance to connect and share experiences. After leaving our hotel at 4:30 AM for the 90-minute journey, our group was thrilled to explore one of Utah`s many treasures, the mesmerizing Salt Flats....
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I wasn`t sure what to expect on my first trip to Salt Lake City, Utah, but it turned out to be quite a pleasant surprise. I recently got to visit the High West Distillery with a group of energetic women bloggers. This fun tour was part of our schedule at the Women in Travel Summit, which took place in Salt Lake City with help from the Visit Utah Tourism Board. It was a great chance to connect and enjoy a new experience together....
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I wasn`t sure what to expect on my first trip to Salt Lake City, Utah, but it turned out to be quite a pleasant surprise. I recently got to visit the High West Distillery with a group of energetic women bloggers. This fun tour was part of our schedule at the Women in Travel Summit, which took place in Salt Lake City with help from the Visit Utah Tourism Board. It was a great chance to connect and enjoy a new experience together....
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Our hike from Monterosso to Vernazza promised an adventure, yet it was tougher than any of us anticipated. A little research would have chave been nice, but we skipped that. We overlooked the weather forecast, adding another layer of unpredictability to our journey. "What could possibly go wrong?" You`ll have read my latest blog post to find out how a simple trek along a mountain ridge linking five quaint fishing villages turned into an unforgettable experience. The Cinque Terre, with its rugged beauty along Italy`s Riviera, etched a lasting memory in our hearts, filled with lessons, laughter, and the sheer unpredictability of travel....
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Our hike from Monterosso to Vernazza promised an adventure, yet it was tougher than any of us anticipated. A little research would have chave been nice, but we skipped that. We overlooked the weather forecast, adding another layer of unpredictability to our journey. "What could possibly go wrong?" You`ll have read my latest blog post to find out how a simple trek along a mountain ridge linking five quaint fishing villages turned into an unforgettable experience. The Cinque Terre, with its rugged beauty along Italy`s Riviera, etched a lasting memory in our hearts, filled with lessons, laughter, and the sheer unpredictability of travel....
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At the edge of the world, where the salt flats of Utah roll out like nature`s own movie screen, each step crackles with the magic of an untold story. Picture yourself in this vast, silent auditorium. All I needed was a little buttered popcorn to complete the scene.
#witssummit #Wits #witstravelcreator #travelblogger @visitutah #saltflatsutah @sheswanderful #witsnewyork #witscreator
At the edge of the world, where the salt flats of Utah roll out like nature`s own movie screen, each step crackles with the magic of an untold story. Picture yourself in this vast, silent auditorium. All I needed was a little buttered popcorn to complete the scene.
#witssummit #Wits #witstravelcreator #travelblogger @visitutah #saltflatsutah @sheswanderful #witsnewyork #witscreator
Out here by myself on the salt flats in Utah, with the sky turning orange and pink at sunset, I love making the water splash and seeing the clouds at my feet. It`s pretty amazing. It gets me thinking about where I`m headed as a content creator – there`s a lot of room to grow, but the exact way forward isn`t totally clear yet. #saltflatselfie
#bonnevillesaltflats
#SunsetMusings
#PathForward
#ContentCreationJourney
#TravelBloggerLife
#ExploringNewDirections
#NatureInspires
#VisitUtah
#WITSUtah
#WITSContentCreator
Out here by myself on the salt flats in Utah, with the sky turning orange and pink at sunset, I love making the water splash and seeing the clouds at my feet. It`s pretty amazing. It gets me thinking about where I`m headed as a content creator – there`s a lot of room to grow, but the exact way forward isn`t totally clear yet. #saltflatselfie
#bonnevillesaltflats
#SunsetMusings
#PathForward
#ContentCreationJourney
#TravelBloggerLife
#ExploringNewDirections
#NatureInspires
#VisitUtah
#WITSUtah
#WITSContentCreator
Snowbirds IRL at #WITSUtah and #empirecanyonlodge #visitutah @shegoeswithpurpose
I`m getting my bum warmed on a heated bench in Park City, Utah. #WITSUtah #visitutah #WITS #witssummit #nonamesaloon
I`m getting my bum warmed on a heated bench in Park City, Utah. #WITSUtah #visitutah #WITS #witssummit #nonamesaloon
In an era of fast-paced travel, Italy invites you to slow down and savor life`s pleasures through the art of slow travel. This blog encourages you to unwind in the Italian countryside, where time seems to stand still among the olive groves and vineyards. We`ll introduce you to agriturismos where you can participate in the local harvest, quaint towns perfect for leisurely exploration, and the Italian concept of "la dolce far niente" - the sweetness of doing nothing. Discover how to truly immerse yourself in the Italian lifestyle, making every moment count....
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In an era of fast-paced travel, Italy invites you to slow down and savor life`s pleasures through the art of slow travel. This blog encourages you to unwind in the Italian countryside, where time seems to stand still among the olive groves and vineyards. We`ll introduce you to agriturismos where you can participate in the local harvest, quaint towns perfect for leisurely exploration, and the Italian concept of "la dolce far niente" - the sweetness of doing nothing. Discover how to truly immerse yourself in the Italian lifestyle, making every moment count....
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Taking in the electrifying energy at Eccles Theater in Salt Lake City, I find myself wrapped in a world of color and creativity. This mural, a vivid backdrop, echoes my love for the arts. Here I am, with a smile that says it all — life is beautiful and full of surprises. #SaltLakeCityAdventures #TheaterLife #MuralMagic #JoyfulJourneys #visitutah #WITSUtah @sheswanderful
Taking in the electrifying energy at Eccles Theater in Salt Lake City, I find myself wrapped in a world of color and creativity. This mural, a vivid backdrop, echoes my love for the arts. Here I am, with a smile that says it all — life is beautiful and full of surprises. #SaltLakeCityAdventures #TheaterLife #MuralMagic #JoyfulJourneys #visitutah #WITSUtah @sheswanderful
Had the most amazing moment meeting the brilliant designer behind my go-to travel scarf! 🌟 In Salt Lake City, where inspiration meets mountain air, I discovered the story behind the secret pocket that keeps my essentials safe on every adventure. Thank you, Waypoint Goods, for merging style with savvy travel needs! ✈️🧣#WITS #Waypoint_Goods #SecretPocket #saltlakecity #visitutah #WITSUtah @sheswanderful
Had the most amazing moment meeting the brilliant designer behind my go-to travel scarf! 🌟 In Salt Lake City, where inspiration meets mountain air, I discovered the story behind the secret pocket that keeps my essentials safe on every adventure. Thank you, Waypoint Goods, for merging style with savvy travel needs! ✈️🧣#WITS #Waypoint_Goods #SecretPocket #saltlakecity #visitutah #WITSUtah @sheswanderful
Can`t beat a secret tour to a secret mural by the artist at #Wits in Salt Lake City, UTAH. #blocks #murals #visitutah #WITSUtah @sheswanderful
Can`t beat a secret tour to a secret mural by the artist at #Wits in Salt Lake City, UTAH. #blocks #murals #visitutah #WITSUtah @sheswanderful
Strolling through the sun-kissed alleys of Malaga, Spain, I`m wrapped in the warmth of a spring afternoon. Olive green shutters and ornate balconies tell stories above, as cobblestones whisper tales of yesteryear below.
#Wanderlust #TravelTales #CityExploration #HistoryAlive #SpringVoyage #CobblestoneChronicles
Strolling through the sun-kissed alleys of Malaga, Spain, I`m wrapped in the warmth of a spring afternoon. Olive green shutters and ornate balconies tell stories above, as cobblestones whisper tales of yesteryear below.
#Wanderlust #TravelTales #CityExploration #HistoryAlive #SpringVoyage #CobblestoneChronicles
Hanging out in San Gimignano with new friends
Driving along the Amalfi Ciat from Sorrento to Amalfi ITALY.
At Crazy Pizza in Rome zitaly for my birthday with our daughter Ashley.
Tycoga Winery & Distillery says it all with its name. While they have a line of spirits, were just driven 30 minutes to taste their award-winning winning and grab a bite to eat. Unfortunately, we weren`t alone-- it was a gang of people inside and out. We were called over to the bar by the winery`s manager to start our tour around this region of Iowa....
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Tycoga Winery & Distillery says it all with its name. While they have a line of spirits, were just driven 30 minutes to taste their award-winning winning and grab a bite to eat. Unfortunately, we weren`t alone-- it was a gang of people inside and out. We were called over to the bar by the winery`s manager to start our tour around this region of Iowa....
https://duffelbagspouse.com/inside-iowas-award-winning-tycoga-winery-distillery/
Italy is home to countless historic towns and villages that have preserved their medieval charm through the centuries. This blog invites readers to step back in time and explore Italy`s lesser-known historic havens. From the fortified walls of San Gimignano to the ancient pathways of Matera, we`ll guide you through destinations where history is alive and well-preserved....
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Italy is home to countless historic towns and villages that have preserved their medieval charm through the centuries. This blog invites readers to step back in time and explore Italy`s lesser-known historic havens. From the fortified walls of San Gimignano to the ancient pathways of Matera, we`ll guide you through destinations where history is alive and well-preserved....
https://duffelbagspouse.com/discovering-san-gimignano-matera-and-lucca/
I`m taking you along on my adventure through Tuscany, a place famous for its picture-perfect landscapes and deep history. But there`s a twist – we`re going eco-friendly. We`ll also see why their food and wine just taste different (in a good way!) and learn why picking organic and local stuff isn`t just a trend—it`s a choice that`s better for us and the planet. Spending the day at Il Vecchio Maneggio is more than just eating and drinking; it`s about making decisions that help keep our earth healthy....
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I`m taking you along on my adventure through Tuscany, a place famous for its picture-perfect landscapes and deep history. But there`s a twist – we`re going eco-friendly. We`ll also see why their food and wine just taste different (in a good way!) and learn why picking organic and local stuff isn`t just a trend—it`s a choice that`s better for us and the planet. Spending the day at Il Vecchio Maneggio is more than just eating and drinking; it`s about making decisions that help keep our earth healthy....
https://duffelbagspouse.com/organic-wine-il-vecchio-maneggio/