After applying to speak at a travel conference, I was rejected. That “no” hit harder than expected. It brought up years of quiet sacrifice, missed chances, and self-doubt. I wanted to be seen, especially by women like me. Instead, I faced the truth—I’ve spent years settling when I wanted more.
Category: BLOGGING MILITARY SPOUSE
Blogging as a military spouse means turning moves and challenges into stories worth telling. PCS checklists become advice to share. Overseas adventures turn into lessons for others. Blogging helps build community and keep memories alive. It gives me space to work through deployments and celebrate milestones. It connects me with people who get this life. And it reaches readers outside the military who want to understand.
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Dear Spammers, My Blog Isn’t Free Marketing for You
I receive guest post requests almost daily, but most feel like cold, careless spam. I’ve lost count of how many emails I’ve received that start with flattery and end with a request to use my blog to sell someone else’s product. They don’t care who I am. They haven’t read…
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The Truth About Instagram vs. Real Travel Experiences
Social media inspires travel—but also distorts it. This post explores the power-of-influencers and how curated content shapes where we go, what we expect, and how much we spend. From crowds to debt and cultural strain, we need a more honest conversation about the real impact of picture-perfect travel online.
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How I Found Purpose Beyond Going Viral: A Writer’s Truth in a Content World
I’m not chasing algorithms anymore. I’m choosing writing over performance, storytelling over scrolling. In the constant pull between content creator vs writer, I’ve made my choice. This post is about letting go of trends, owning your voice, and returning to what matters—honest stories told on your own terms.
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From Memories to Mistakes: When Photos Go Too Far
Photography has never been easier—or riskier. As smartphones replaced film cameras, convenience surged but safety declined. From cliffside selfies to impulsive snapshots, this post explores how modern photography habits have shifted and why awareness matters more than ever when capturing life on the go.
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How WITS Connects Women Who Love Travel and Content Creation
Why I Keep Going Back to WITS Creator Summit Is WITS worth attending? Absolutely. I asked myself that same question before signing up for my first Women in Travel Summit in Portland, Maine. I didn’t know a soul. But by the end of the weekend, I felt like I had…
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Real Ways I Make Money as a Travel Blogger Today
I didn’t start Duffelbagspouse to make money. I just wanted to tell real stories about travel, family, and constant moves. Over time, I found ways to earn from what I love. This post breaks down what works, what doesn’t, and how storytelling can become part of something sustainable and real.
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Why DeepSeek’s Rise Should Make U.S. Tech Nervous
China’s AI innovation is shaking up the tech world. With DeepSeek’s rapid rise, cost efficiency, and Rednote’s global appeal, these advancements highlight China’s increasing dominance in app and AI development. Can the U.S. maintain its technological edge, or will China’s fast, affordable approach redefine the future of AI?