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Category: MILITARY LIFE & TRAVEL

Military life changes how you see the world. It means building a marriage across distance, raising children between duty stations, and learning to shape a home out of temporary walls. It means goodbyes every few years, late-night phone calls from overseas, and a level of resilience most people never witness.

This category gathers the stories that grow out of that life—SpaceA trips that opened the world to us, the hard lessons of supporting a partner through PTSD, the realities of saving money on base, and the quiet worries many of us carry as political decisions ripple through our communities. You’ll also find guides for PCS moves, memories from growing up as an Army brat, reflections on quarantine in Korea, and the push-and-pull between service and personal identity.

These posts offer practical help and emotional truth for anyone living the military journey or trying to understand it. Whether you’re navigating your first assignment or your tenth move, you’re not doing it alone.

MILITARY LIFE & TRAVEL Stacey, Malik and Kamren, witches tower, Baumholder

Baumholder Military Life: What Made Our German Apartment So Special

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Don’t get me wrong, I loved our little apartment in Baumholder, but that town was well-known for its contrary weather. We fondly and not so fondly referred to it as the rock. We lived in an old stone mansion that had been renovated into four large apartments. We shared the second floor with a retired German officer. The first floor was split between a US Major and his wife. Across the hall was a 90+ year old German widow.

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MILITARY LIFE & TRAVEL Steven with kid Malik

Saying Goodbye Every Three Years in the Military

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I sat in a quiet parking lot before dawn and said goodbye without words as my husband left for deployment. After he was gone, I managed the house, raised our children, and learned how to live with the silence he left behind. I built routines to stay grounded, even when loneliness and fear crept in. I came to understand that while he served overseas, I was serving at home in my own way. Through every goodbye, I held onto the belief that love, resilience, and time would carry us to the next hello.

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MILITARY LIFE & TRAVEL Military Life, The Insider Guide, Surviving the PCS Move, moving again

Military Life: The Insider Guide to Surviving PCS and Deployments

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Military life means moving—again and again. Each PCS brings new challenges, from packing memories to finding a new home. After years of cross-country and overseas relocations, I’ve learned that preparation, organization, and patience make all the difference. This guide shares my best PCS tips, real-life stories, and resources to make your next move smoother and stress-free.

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